Thursday, May 2, 2019

A Letter to My Daughter on Turning FIVE!

Dear Aaradhya,

This year on March 20, 2019, you turned FIVE.  I remember the moment you were born. You were so small. But I knew from the moment I saw your face, I loved you.

I love seeing you grow. Even though, I would love you to be little forever.

Five means you are still a child, but yet you are so independent. You put on your own clothes. You set your own plate. You get your own drink from the fridge.

You are 5 and you are brave, independent, stubborn, strong-willed, loving, selective, warm, bossy, difficult, easy, cuddly, and tough all in one. You can now drive a bycyle independently. You are so sweet. You are like me. :)




This letter isn’t to remember where you have been, it is to speak blessings over you for the future. I love you so deeply I could not express it all in words.

When you walk into a room and talk to someone new, you bring a smile to their face. Your joy in life brings joy to others. And it pours out to every person you interact with on a daily basis.

You are compassionate. If someone is hurt, you want them to feel better. If someone is sad, you want them to feel happy. And if you don’t know what is wrong with someone, you want to find out. I love your heart for people. It is adorable and a beautiful picture of God’s love for people.


You will always be my sweet daughter. No matter what happens in life, I will always love you. Through thick and thin, Good times and bad times, I will always love you. You are my daughter. And there will never be anything which will change this for me. You are good in all activities at your School. You always receives a positive feedback from your teacher.

Lastly, I wanted to tell you that there will be challenges over the next five years. You will find that not everyone is nice like your family. There will be other people who will be mean and try and tell you things which aren’t true. But I will be here for you. I vow to bring truth into your life.

I will not be able to keep you from the sadness in the world, but I will help you learn to deal with it and to know how important goodness can heal many wounds. There will be sadness and difficulty, but you won’t have to face it alone.

So today, I bless you to bring forth growth which will change the world. And I pray God will give you all that you need and build you up to do great things.


On May 29, 2019, (Your Nana, Nani) Mrs. Tara Tomar and Mr. Rajender Singh Tomar of Village Pabiana Again Playing With Me. Trying to separate you from me!

Cheeku, your mother (USHA) has some mental disorder and always try to quarrel with me for no reason. She is living here with me as an agent of her father and mother. She always try and wanted to dominate me infront of all people, her relatives and friends. She always used to say, "Tujhe To Mai Jaanboojh Ke Pareshan Kar Rahi Hu, Shadi To Kisi Aur Se Karungi Fir Usko Pareshan Ni Karungi Agar Wahan Bhi Achha Ni Lagega To Kisi Aur Se... And so on...".

These people have made my life hell. If anything will happen to me, only these three people are responsible. They are blackmailing me to take you away from me...

Listen to the sound track below how their behavior is with me. They are threatening me to file a case again on me and forcefully get your School certificate from your current school at Chandigarh.

I am upset, stressed and troubled/harassed by these people. They people troubling me from my path. The voice of those people each time/everyday stroke in my head like a storm. They are simply messing with me.

Dear Cheeku, I am working in a private company at Chandigarh and surviving well. Due to mental harassment/ and torture by these people, I am very depressed and it affecting my health.

With all the love a father can provide, I love you, my sweet girl.

Yash