A Letter to My Daughter on Turning FIVE!

Dear Aaradhya,

This year on March 20, 2019, you turned FIVE.  I remember the moment you were born. You were so small. But I knew from the moment I saw your face, I loved you.

I love seeing you grow. Even though, I would love you to be little forever.

Five means you are still a child, but yet you are so independent. You put on your own clothes. You set your own plate. You get your own drink from the fridge.

You are 5 and you are brave, independent, stubborn, strong-willed, loving, selective, warm, bossy, difficult, easy, cuddly, and tough all in one. You can now drive a bycyle independently. You are so sweet. You are like me. :)

This letter isn’t to remember where you have been, it is to speak blessings over you for the future. I love you so deeply I could not express it all in words.

When you walk into a room and talk to someone new, you bring a smile to their face. Your joy in life brings joy to others. And it pours out to every person you interact with on a daily basis.

You are compassionate. If someone is hurt, you want them to feel better. If someone is sad, you want them to feel happy. And if you don’t know what is wrong with someone, you want to find out. I love your heart for people. It is adorable and a beautiful picture of God’s love for people.

You will always be my sweet daughter. No matter what happens in life, I will always love you. Through thick and thin, Good times and bad times, I will always love you. You are my daughter. And there will never be anything which will change this for me. You are good in all activities at your School. You always receives a positive feedback from your teacher.

Lastly, I wanted to tell you that there will be challenges over the next five years. You will find that not everyone is nice like your family. There will be other people who will be mean and try and tell you things which aren’t true. But I will be here for you. I vow to bring truth into your life.

I will not be able to keep you from the sadness in the world, but I will help you learn to deal with it and to know how important goodness can heal many wounds. There will be sadness and difficulty, but you won’t have to face it alone.

So today, I bless you to bring forth growth which will change the world. And I pray God will give you all that you need and build you up to do great things.


On May 29, 2019, (Your Nana, Nani) Mrs. Tara Tomar and Mr. Rajender Singh Tomar of Village Pabiana Again Playing With Me. Trying to separate you from me!

Cheeku, your mother (USHA) has some mental disorder and always try to quarrel with me for no reason. She is living here with me as an agent of her father and mother. She always try and wanted to dominate me infront of all people, her relatives and friends. She always used to say, "Tujhe To Mai Jaanboojh Ke Pareshan Kar Rahi Hu, Shadi To Kisi Aur Se Karungi Fir Usko Pareshan Ni Karungi Agar Wahan Bhi Achha Ni Lagega To Kisi Aur Se... And so on...".

These people have made my life hell. If anything will happen to me, only these three people are responsible. They are blackmailing me to take you away from me...

Listen to the sound track below how their behavior is with me. They are threatening me to file a case again on me and forcefully get your School certificate from your current school at Chandigarh.

I am upset, stressed and troubled/harassed by these people. They people troubling me from my path. The voice of those people each time/everyday stroke in my head like a storm. They are simply messing with me.

Dear Cheeku, I am working in a private company at Chandigarh and surviving well. Due to mental harassment/ and torture by these people, I am very depressed and it affecting my health.

With all the love a father can provide, I love you, my sweet girl.

Yash

12 Arrested For Running Illegal Gambling At Village Pabiyana in Mr. Rajinder Singh's House (पबियाणा गांव में जुआ खेलते 12 गिरफ्तार)

Some of you know his background. Just a real quick summary for those who don't: 

I am writing this to give you people some information about Mr. Rajinder Singh, S/O Sh. Bhagat Ram, (Bhagtiya) Village Pabiyana, working as a Peon at HPPWD, Teh Rajgarh, Distt. Sirmaur. I want to inform you that Mr.

Rajinder Singh is my father in law and is well known for his notorious acts in the neighborhood. As per the police station, many complaints have been lodged against him in the past and he is a proclaimed defaulter. 

1. In 2012, before Vidhan Sabha Election, he came to our house and told us he has lost a bag of official cash of Rs. 1.50 Lakh somewhere at Sarahan. As that cash belonged to his office and was for election expenses, he was the only authorized person to get the cash from Nahan Distt. HQ. He told us that somebody has stolen the bag containing the cash and was begging for Rs. 1.20 Lakh from us. When we suggest him to file a FIR, he refused and said that firstly he has to deposit the cash & after that he will file FIR. When we forced him to lodge a complaint at the police station before giving him the cash, he himself confessed that he has found his lost bag. We initially failed to understand his motive behind this and later realized that it was his game plan to get the money from us.

2. Secondly, Rajinder singh is trying his best to destroy my married life to gain financial benefits from our family. On Sep 15, 2014, I went to his home around 12 PM to meet my daughter who was with my wife at his house. Rajinder Singh was at home at that time and he along with his wife started arguing with me and my family and was not allowing me to meet my 6 month old daughter. When I told them that it is my legal right to meet my daughter, he physically assaulted me and then went to the police station with his daughter to file case against me. He said that as his attendance is forgedly marked present at the office, no one can proove that he assaulted me physically at his home.

I can understand that it is a family dispute and you can not take any action against him but still, I want you to inform that Mr Rajinder Singh is a completely fraud person and many cases have been registered against him for his illegal gambling business running at home. His whole family is fully or partially involved in it. Please do not trust him at all.

The reason why they are messing up my married life is that I get frustrated and ask for divorce and so they can get their monthly maintenance money from me for the wife and the child.

I can not write the countless incidents in which Mr Rajinder and his family has tortured me. I can just say that it has been an endless mental pain for me since I married his daughter. 

I belong to a respectable family and myself work as an IT Professional, I too want to live happily with my wife but this man has just messed up everything.

At last I would just say that please keep a check on this man as he may be using the name of your department (HPPWD) for his personal gains.

पबियाणा गांव में जुआ खेलते 12 गिरफ्तार

Story Update : Thursday, July 26, 2012    12:01 AM
पबियाणा गांव में जुआ खेलते 12 गिरफ्तार
राजगढ़ (सिरमौर)। थाना राजगढ़ की सैर जगास पंचायत के पबियाना गांव में पुलिस ने सर्च वारंट के जरिये कार्रवाई कर एक दर्जन के करीब जुआरियों को रंगे हाथ जुआ खेलते दबोचा है। पुलिस की इस कार्रवाई से गांव में हड़कंप मच गया है। पुलिस ने मौके पर जुआरियों से लगभग 14 हजार से अधिक की राशि भी बरामद की है। सभी आरोपियों को गिरफ्तार कर उनके खिलाफ जुआ अधिनियम के तहत मामला दर्ज कर लिया गया है। मामले की पुष्टि थाना प्रभारी धर्मपाल सिंह ने की है। क्षेत्र में जुआ खेलने की इस घटना से लोग हतप्रभ हैं। पुलिस ने योजना बनाकर बुधवार तड़के पबियाना गांव में दबिश दी। तीन बजे के करीब की गई इस कार्रवाई में पुलिस ने रामानंद, सुभाष, राजेंद्र सिंह, अनिल, अरुण कुमार, विनोद कुमार, कमल, सुरेश और विनोद को मौके पर गिरफ्तार करने में सफलता पाई है। पुलिस टीम में थाना प्रभारी सहित एएसआई राजेश पाल और राजेंद्र कुमार भी शामिल थे।

बाक्स टोलियां बनाकर खेल रहे थे जुआ राजगढ़ (सिरमौर)। बुधवार तड़के तीन बजे पुलिस की दबिश के बाद पबियाणा निवासी राजेंद्र के मकान के भीतर जुआ खेल रहे लगभग 12 लोगों को जैसे सांप सूंघ गया था। सभी जुआरी मकान के भीतर टोलियां बनाकर जुआ खेल रहे थे। मौके पर 14 हजार 800 रुपये भी बरामद किए गए हैं। क्षेत्र के कुछ बुद्धिजीवियों ने जुआ खेलने की इस घटना को निंदनीय बताया है। लोगों का कहना था कि कुछ
अर्से से क्षेत्र में इस तरह की घटनाओं को अंजाम दिया जा रहा है। बाक्स सभी को जमानत पर रिहा किया राजगढ़ (सिरमौर)। जुआ खेलते पकड़े गए सभी लोगों को पुलिस ने बाद में जमानत पर रिहा कर दिया है। थाना प्रभारी धर्मपाल शर्मा ने बताया कि हिरासत में लेने के बाद सभी को जमानत दे दी गई है।